【作者】 张琪；

【导师】 张世勇；

【作者基本信息】 西北农林科技大学 ， 社会工作硕士（专业学位）， 2019， 硕士

【摘要】 由于各种主客观原因诸如家庭婚姻破裂、父母外出工作等导致的父母和子女之间长久分离;父母采取错误的教养方式或者家庭内部的原因等,使得父母与孩子之间的距离渐行渐远,亲子关系产生了疏离感。亲子关系疏离感的主要表现可归结为父母和子女之间相处陪伴的时间少;缺乏沟通交流,沟通频率低,层次浅;距离疏远,包括心理距离和身体距离上的疏远。亲子关系疏离对家庭的发展、家庭成员的成长都是不利的,并且影响我国社会对亲情观念的重视。纵观国内对于亲子关系的研究,基本没有进行深入的细分,只是停留在个案、小组等方法的笼统介入。本研究将不良亲子关系进一步细化为亲子关系疏离的问题,运用萨提亚治疗模式进行介入。萨提亚治疗模式旨在探讨个体的应对方式,帮助个体建立表里一致的沟通方式,促进父母和子女间的良性沟通,从而提升亲子关系的亲密度。本研究总结了萨提亚治疗模式在各个领域,特别是家庭领域的介入经验以及亲子关系疏离感的实务介入状况。同时结合实习所在地的环境、评估机构可利用的资源,对亲子关系疏离问题进行介入。案主作为机构的志愿者,为社工创造了建立信任关系的机会,社工运用“添加内在关怀”、“构建”外部支持的方式,与案主建立了信任关系。评估了案主的问题及需求后,运用萨提亚治疗模式对个案进行介入。由于此个案的特殊性,只邀请到了案主的母亲参与个案治疗。在萨提亚治疗模式介入过程中,运用相关技巧与案主、案主母亲建立了专业联结。社工作为一个外部因素,打破了案主与母亲之间带症状的平衡状态,使案主母亲、案主意识到亲子关系存在的问题。社工引导案主、案主母亲分析觉察了家庭成员应对问题的方式,家庭成员之间的症状只是迹象,最大的问题是家庭成员之间的沟通出现了问题。帮助家庭成员建立“表里一致”的沟通模式,提高个体自尊,满足个体的内心需要,使个体活得更加“人性化”。降低亲子关系疏离感,提升亲子关系亲密感,最终实现亲子关系的和谐。更多还原

【Abstract】 Due to various subjective and objective reasons,such as: family marriage break;Long separation between parents and children;Parents adopt the wrong upbringing,etc.Make the distance between parents and children gradually far away,the parent-child relationship has a sense of alienation.The main manifestation of the alienation of parent-child relationship is that parents and children spend less time together.Lack of communication,communication frequency is low,shallow level;Distance alienation mainly includes psychological distance and physical distance.The alienation of parent-child relationship is a relatively minor problem in the parent-child relationship.The performance of the problem is not complicated,but simple and easy to intervene,which will stifle the consequences in the cradle.In order to prevent the serious problem of parent-child relationship,it is necessary to intervene in advance.Throughout the domestic research on parent-child relationship,there is no in-depth subdivision,but only general intervention in individual cases,groups and other methods.In this study,the adverse parent-child relationship was further refined into the problem of parent-child relationship alienation,and Satya treatment model was used for intervention.Satya therapy aims to explore the coping styles of individuals,help individuals to establish a consistent communication mode between parents and children,and promote healthy communication between parents and children,so as to enhance the intimacy of parent-child relationship.This study summarized the intervention experience of satya therapy in various fields,especially in the family field,and the practical intervention status of parent-child relationship alienation.At the same time,combined with the environment of the place where the internship is located and the resources available to the evaluation institution,the parent-child relationship alienation problem is intervened.As volunteers of the institution,the client creates opportunities for social workers to establish trust relationship.Social workers establish trust relationship with the client by means of "adding internal care" and "building" external support.After assessing the patient’s problems and needs,satya therapy was used to intervene the case.Due to the particularity of this case,only the mother of the subject was invited to participate in the case treatment.In the intervention process of satya treatment model,the author established a professional connection with the subject and the mother through relevant skills.Social work is an external factor,which breaks the balance state with symptoms between the subject and the mother,and makes the mother and the subject aware of the problems existing in the parent-child relationship.The social worker guides the subject and the mother to analyze and perceive the way the family members deal with problems.The symptoms among family members are only signs,and the biggest problem is the communication among family members.Help family members to establish the communication mode of "consistency between appearance and inside",improve individual self-esteem,meet the inner needs of individuals,and make individuals live more "humanized".Reduce the sense of alienation in parent-child relationship,enhance the sense of intimacy in parent-child relationship,and finally achieve the harmony of parent-child relationship.更多还原