【摘要】 胡兰成是个朝秦暮楚的荡子,他对女人,见一个爱一个,情虽不伪,却也不专。张爱玲却不同她与人交往很矜持,不善交际,不见生客,对异性的求爱信,拆不也不拆,更别说看了。但为什么对胡兰成这么痴情?通过研读可以得知,张爱玲与胡兰成是相知的。胡兰成说:“因为相知,所以懂得。”张爱玲说:“因为懂得,所以慈悲。”张爱玲看重的就是这点。但胡兰成对张爱玲只是相知,却不相随,也不专一。张爱玲用她的孤独、寂寞和苍凉时代价,弄懂了人生“相知”者难求“相随”者更难求。更多还原

【Abstract】 Hu Lan-cheng was a man whose love was never focused on a single woman,while Zhang Ai-ling was just the opposite.She was conservative and associable.The reason that she was so in love with Hu Lan-cheng is that Zhang Ai-ling knew Hu Lan-cheng very well.Hu Lan-cheng believed that understanding comes from familiarity,while Zhang believed that mercy comes from understanding.Hu just wanted to know Zhang,but did not want to be with her forever.Zhang Ai-ling ultimately understood the meaning that it is hard to understand each other,but it is harder to be together forever,at the cost of her life-long loneliness and dreariness.更多还原