【摘要】 自爱作为人的本能需要,它是爱己与爱人的立足点。他爱只能产生于自爱的前提下,因为就其产生的机制来说,它源于个体自身的感受和需要。虽然就外在行为结果来看,它指向的是他人的利益,是他爱,但就其行为结果所产生的心理感受来说,它指向的是自我,是自爱。自爱的发展与人的需要层次是相对应的。低层次的自爱的外在表现主要指向自己,高层次的自爱的外在表现更多扩展于他人。没有强烈的自爱,就很难表现出强烈的他爱。他爱不是自我牺牲,而是自我实现。更多还原

【Abstract】 Self-love as human nature is the standpoint for positive love.Otherlove which looks to direct other’s profit from its outcome actually does for himself to his feeling and must be based upon self-love given it origins from one’s perception and needs.The development of self-love corresponds to one’s need levels,and its activity directs to his interests in low levels while it does to others’ interests in high levels.No more self-love one has,no more other-love he felts.Other-love is not self-sacrificed,but self-realized.更多还原