【作者】 张超；

【导师】 冯红；

【作者基本信息】 东北农业大学 ， 思想政治教育， 2015， 硕士

【摘要】 婚姻价值观就是个体对婚姻和家庭所持的内在尺度,80后已经结婚了,在80后的身上,翻天覆地的社会变迁在他们的脑海里,并且对他们的人生观、价值观和世界观有很大影响,尤其在婚姻价值观方面。婚姻是人类生存繁衍的基本形式,随着80后独生子女的成长,他们已经逐步步入婚姻家庭的殿堂。由于婚姻价值观的不同,婚后的家庭生活中出现了很多问题。在本文中,80后作为他们婚姻价值观的主体,以了解婚恋的现状及影响因素,并探讨他们的成长和发展的有用路径,辅助他们健康成长。80后婚姻价值观的主要包括择偶观、恋爱观、生育观、性观念四个方面;其总体特征体现在择偶标准倾向物质化、婚恋方式多元化、结婚离婚主张自主化三大方面;而影响80后婚姻价值观的因素既有客观因素又有主观因素,主要包括社会经济、西方文化、家庭氛围和个人自身素质等方面的因素。在此基础上从优化社会文化环境、构筑温馨幸福家庭、加强80后自我教育等三个方面提出了80后婚价值观的引导策略,以促进80后树立正确的婚姻价值观,维护婚姻家庭的稳定完整,从而推动社会的和谐发展。更多还原

【Abstract】 Marriage is the basic form of reproduction of human existence, with the later only children, they have a marriage and family temple, because of the different values of marriage, married life has had many problems. The post-80 s generation most is the only child from an early age to develop the self- centered concept, the couple get along with each other in China, they will not understand each other, always in order to over trivial quarrel, serious and even reached the end of a marriage, and ultimately harm is for parents and children to them, children of the damage is particularly serious, the so-called family is the first school who was born, is the cradle of personal growth, the growth of children to their body and mind in a dysfunctional family will also cause some damage. At the same time, marital values for the family harmony, social stability plays an important role in.The marriage of different values in the 80’s life were varied, all kinds of conflicts in the family follow close on succession. The contradiction and the conflict has become a common phenomenon in the life of 80 after marriage. Specific include: between husband and wife role expectations caused by the conflict; the way of life of different family conflicts caused by the concept of family economy; problems caused by marriage value; between husband and wife responsibility caused by marriage values conflict. The value of 80 after marriage not a correct concept of influence to the family brings, serious is family breakdown; rupture to family emotional education children serious misunderstanding, prone to extreme sex education, also produced the single parent families this effect; single parent families of children’s growth is likely to have negative effect, but there are also some single parent families children more in this environment, the more support oneself spontaneous Tuqiang, produced positive effect. The husband wife relationship quality also affects children coming marriage values.The improvement of 80 after marriage values problem, need from the macro and micro aspects of the two methods combined with hands. The essence of ingredients macro aspect to inherit the good traditional marriage values, secondly combining the merit of Western values on marriage in the orientation of development, the requirements of a harmonious society to guide marriage values. The micro aspect, rights and obligations between the members of the family should be equal, with a tolerance of the heart and sincere attitude to respect personality and family members. The relationship between husband and wife is more to be true to the core, conjugal love of husband and wife, in the premise of respect for each other, the more self reflection and self change.This paper studied on 80 marriage values, trying to 80 in marriage by marriage values of different problems as the research object, and carries on the analysis, to guide the 80 to correct marriage values, how to have a happy marriage and the integrity of the family, to set up the correct marriage values.更多还原