【摘要】 文章根据麦克卢汉的媒介理论，结合心理学相关知识，探讨分析数据升降间的关系，即“容器人”媒介的使用与“婚恋”之间的关系。研究挖掘出新媒体环境下“容器男女”渴望自由、渴望被爱、渴望独特却又不敢暴露、拒他人于千里的矛盾心理，进一步分析“容器男女”婚恋逃离心理成因，即习得性无助及负性行为的模仿。以上现象的产生由多种因素造成，既有技术发展问题，亦有原生家庭及社会原因。建议从青年男女的教育环境、家庭环境、社会环境及心理引导等方面着手，多方治理，打好“组合拳”,破解其当下困境。更多还原

【Abstract】 Based on McLuhan’s media theory of communication, combined with relevant knowledge of psychology, this paper analyzed the relationship between the data rise and fall, that is, the relationship between the media use of “container people” and “marriage”. The study explored the conflicting mental states of “container people” who desire freedom, desire to beloved, desire to be unique but are afraid of being exposed, and reject others in the new media environment, and further analyzed the psychological causes of “container men and women” escaping from marriage, which is the imitation of learned helplessness and negative behavior. The above phenomenon is caused by a variety of factors, like technological development issues, family of origin and social reasons. In order to make the development of marriage between young men and women work in a positive direction, it is suggested to start from the educational environment, family environment, social environment and psychological guidance of young men and women, and take a portfolio of countermeasures to crack the current dilemma.更多还原