【摘要】 恐婚情绪是一种极具代表性的社会心理问题，它体现在恐惧主体的话语实践中。本文基于一手真实的微博语料，通过文化语用学视角探讨了中国女性恐婚话语恐惧的所指对象、建构手段以及驱动程序。就所指对象而言，女性恐婚话语可以划分为自我指向和他者指向；就建构手段而言，其在自我指向维度上表现为对自我身份的污名和贬损，在他者指向维度上表现为对自我权势的缺位以及他者权势的反击；就驱动程序而言，女性恐婚话语实质上是对“身份迷失”的恐惧诉求，内在驱动核心应当归属到对自尊心、权势度和归属感三个层面的心理防御机制。要实现对中国女性恐婚情绪的疏解，对女性婚姻中的身份建构和人际期望应当是我们的关注重点，并且立足于宏观的“家”文化场域的人际话语研究应是其未来的研究方向。更多还原

【Abstract】 The practice of fear of marriage discourse is a very representative social language phenomenon, which profoundly reveals the subject’s logical orientation towards of fear. In view of this, based on the authentic microblog data, this paper discusses the targets, construction strategies and control procedures of Chinese women’s fear of marriage discourse from the perspective of cultural pragmatics. As far as the referent is concerned, it can be divided into self-orientation and other orientation; As far as the construction strategy is concerned, it is manifested in the stigma and derogation of self-identity in the dimension of self-orientation, and in the dimension of other orientation, it is manifested in the absence of self-power and the counterattack of other power; As far as the control procedure is concerned, women’s fear of marriage discourse is essentially a fear demand for “identity loss”, and the internal driving core belongs to the psychological defense mechanism of self-esteem, power and sense of belonging. Therefore, it is necessary to construct the psychological reality of Chinese women’s fear of marriage based on the macro “family” cultural field, which is an important research perspective in interpersonal discourse in the future.更多还原