【摘要】 电影《我的姐姐》因揭示女性面临的个体发展和照顾家人的两难选择而引起热议。“走出家庭”一直是近代以来女性解放运动的一部分，其原因在于家庭成员地位不平等，家庭当时是对个体的约束，更是女性的枷锁和牢笼。然而，女性终究还是难以真正彻底“走出家庭”,其原因除了传统不平等的性别文化和观念上的制约外，还有个体主义及自我主义本身的负面效应。父母的爱护、兄弟姐妹间的手足情、婚恋中的两性情感依然对个体存在与成长具有积极意义。为此，一种新的家庭主义得以倡导，即建立一种基于平等关系、能平衡权利和责任、真正可以保护个人权利、尊严，有个人自主且能道德自律与他律的可持续、有温暖的家庭。用新的家庭主义取代西方意义上有问题的个体主义，是个体未来出路的一种。更多还原

【Abstract】 The movie My Sister has aroused heated discussion because it reveals the dilemma of women’s individual development and taking care of families. “Going out of the family” had always been a part of the women’s liberation in modern times, and its root lied in the unequal status of family members, which constituted a restraint on individuals, and was also a shackle and cage for women. However, it is still difficult for women to truly “get out of the family”. In addition to the traditional unequal gender culture and conceptual constraints, there are also the negative effects of individualism and egoism. The love of parents, brothers and sisters, and the relationship in marriage or love still contribute to existence and growth of individuals. For this reason, a new kind of familism is advocated: the establishment of an equal relationship, which balances rights and responsibilities, truly protects individual rights and dignity, and which is personally autonomous, morally self-disciplined, heterogeneous and sustainable. Replacing problematic individualism in the Western sense with new familism may be a way out for individuals in the future.更多还原